How have you started the week?
Today I start on Monday very philosophically ...
Sometimes people tell you things at a certain moment, where you vaguely know the situation they are going through, and those things are not pretty.
When you know that you have a thousand and one arguments that prove the opposite of that words ... what are you doing?
Well in certain situations and knowing only vaguely what happens, you put yourself in the place of the other person.
What happens then?
Nothing.
Why?
Because it does not make sense.
What I mean by this?
Well, there are times when a person tells you things with all the conviction of the world and you're not going to make her change her mind by a lot of argument or fact that you bring to the table and that you both know.
Besides, if there's one thing I consider both a virtue and a curse, it's my damn empathy.
When you know that a person is going through a lot of bad things at the same time and you feel helpless because you can't do a thing to improve the situation or make the things go better. When you know it's painful and no one can really do nothing to change the situation. When, in addition, you know perfectly what it is to go through those types of seasons and situations with the best of your smiles.
Then, it is when you put yourself in the shoes of the other and you have nothing left but to continue striving hard to be able to improve as much as possible what you can within the environment of these people.
It is true that I do not have all the skill, dexterity or speed that I would like. But for that, I came here. To give my best effort and try to improve those things.
I do not know why I justify this when the words were not addressed to me. But in a certain way they stuck in me equally and they hurt the same ... Things that happen ^^
Buuut, everything is not lost. We will continue giving our best effort and absorbing everything we can to improve at the pace you can or be allowed! <3
I hope everything will be better soon and we will all be filled with vibrancy and positive energy, since it is always good to be surrounded by such wonders in this short life that has been given to us ^^
Despite everything, the rest of the day went by quite normally. We worked a lot and gave our best effort.
It's been a wonderful time in Scotland, so a walk through nature always feels good! <3
Also, when I got home, I had the best Scotsman in this world waiting for me with a shoulder to cry on, an ear that listened to me, mint ice cream and chocolate and tea with biscuits. Can you ask for something better to start the week?
So this is the mini-advice today:
When someone says things that you do not like to listen to, first, listen, second process and third, act.
But be careful, listen, but do not judge or prepare your answer.
Process the information and put yourself in the shoes of the other person. Learn from what you have heard and keep what is important.
Act, but not answering or feeling bad or surrounding yourself with negativity, but trying to give the best of yourself. Demonstrate to yourself that you are here to learn and to give the best version of you. If something you have heard can help you to advance or improve, apply it and treasure it, since this world is full of dishonest and insincere people. Learn to value honesty and sincerity of people.
Have a great start to your week!
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